There come many stages in a man’s life that decides how true he is ready to fight. If life is a war, then you better be warriors. It is not like the wars that have happened previously on this earth but a mental war.
We are fellowmen to the entitled thing called love, and we fail and fall, but never give up. This is the exact thing that is required in a relationship to last. This is the first and foremost and last and final settlement done, never give up in an internship, or relationship or an internship ?
Many people reach both points at the same time in their life and they often get confused as to what amount of dedication is to be volunteeringly applied and what in regards to the life we think is going to end if we didn’t end up with a good job. They both have many things in common, and they both teach us many things, in this rollercoaster ride of relationship and internship, these are the seven loops.
THE ONE SELECTING THE RIGHT ONE
We regret, yes we regret a lot of things in life, but this is the most gratefully acknowledged and ethical regret one feels. When we first look out for an internship we look at the company as a beautiful girl. The older and known the company is the more we crush on it, also it becomes hard to reach. In both of the cases we dream of a big job in the city and end up with a place 2 hours far from your home.
THE ONE WHERE THE PARTY IS OVER
Things like this happens, where at the beginning the company/partner looks fun, attractive and great and after the party is over what’s left in the deck is empty glasses. Here it feels like it was better to just know the person from outside, maybe just the viewer is happy but not the consumer.
THE ONE WHERE SELF DOUBT COMES IN
After some time into it, you finally doubt yourself, asking questions like “What if I was the one who wasn’t ready?” Or something like “What if I am the one who is not ready” and in this stage you are slowly moving towards getting single and unemployed.
THE ONE WHERE YOU KNOW YOU DON’T KNOW ANYTHING
You come across the question if you know anything about this ? About how serious this thing is and about how you have been joking away all your life and this is not a Canvas Laugh Club and you are yet to become a stand-up comedian. This is the moment of acceptance saying yes to not knowing
THE ONE WHERE YOU STOP CARING
If a task given to you, you don’t take it seriously, because somewhere in you mind you are free of all this suffering and you just want to be with your friends and hang out and talk nonsensical things to them and maybe end up banging your head to the wall in order to figure out who has a bigger brain.
THE ONE WHERE YOU ARE FREE
After a lot of put to thinking and taking stupid advices from your friends whose parents have thrown him out of the house and he lives with his aunt, you feel free. You feel that you no longer need to do this work. You are meant for something great, maybe NASA astronaut because you watch National Geographic, or maybe a WildLife Photographer because of animal planet. You are free now to dream.
THE ONE WITH THE DAILY ROUTINE
Here you understand that you were not liking this from the first day, and with the advice of a homeless friend and a little ego, you decide to deny everything said to you. You start arguments that you don’t want to end. Even your body language is fighting a war.
When your thinking about everything is done, you start overthinking, and this time it is bad. Now all things considered you have no future at all. You regret things, you feel like your routine is gone, now there is nothing to do in life. Now everything Beautiful has ended and you didn’t value it when you had it. Still with the help of dreams of a wildlife photographer and a NASA astronaut you live up, you laugh at nonsensical things of your friends, you bang head on the wall to see whose brain is bigger and now you are single and unemployed.